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A journal for your kids

Capture who they are, while it is true.

Capture who they are right now. The thing they did today that was entirely theirs. What you want them to know, written down while it is true, for a day a long way off.

Begin your journal

In the group chat

The sentence they said in the car on Tuesday goes into a group chat and scrolls away by Friday. The photographs kept the face and none of the words.

In one place

Their exact words, dated, kept in one book. Search a year and the way they talked that whole spring comes back.

The blank page

Everyone means to write things down for their kids, and almost nobody does, because the moment you sit down it feels like it should be a letter worth keeping forever. Four lines about a Tuesday is worth more, and takes four minutes.

What it looks like

A journal for your kids in Innerholm, open at an empty page on its own paper, with the edition's opening prompt set faintly on it.
How it opens. The prompt is furniture rather than a form: write past it, answer it, or ignore it entirely.
A journal for your kids in Innerholm with an entry written on it, dated, above the page footer.
The same page with a few minutes in it. The date, the paper, and the footer are the edition's own.
A journal for your kids in Innerholm in dark mode, the same written entry on the edition's night paper.
At night. Every edition has a night stock, chosen so the ink stays readable rather than dimmed.

How to start a journal for your kids

  1. Keep their exact words

    Write the sentence as they said it, wrong grammar and all. Paraphrase loses the whole thing.

  2. Write the ordinary day, not the birthday

    The photographs already have the birthday. Nothing has the school run and what was said in the car.

  3. Let it be uneven

    A run of entries then three quiet months is what a real record looks like. Nothing here counts the gaps.

What this journal opens with

  • What did they do today that was theirs?
  • What do you want them to know?

A quiet start, never a form. Write past the prompt, ignore it, or make the page your own. The journal holds the shape; the words are yours.

Memory Journal Prompts for Your Kids

The entries that survive are the specific ones: the exact sentence they said at dinner, the way they held the spoon, the thing they were afraid of this month and not the next. Ages and milestones are on record everywhere else. This is for what is not.

  • What did they say today that you want to keep exactly as they said it?
  • What are they completely taken with this month?
  • What are they afraid of right now, and how do they handle it?
  • What do they do that is entirely theirs, that neither of you taught them?
  • What does a normal day with them look like this year, hour by hour?

All memory journal prompts →

Private like a notebook

No ads. No trackers. Nothing trains on what you write. Search across years, sync between your devices, and export everything as Markdown or Day One whenever you like. How privacy works →

Part of Innerholm+. A good paper journal costs $30 to $40, for one chapter. Plus opens every edition for $40 a year, or $5 a month, and the free editions stay free because Plus pays for them.

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Free prompts

Twelve memory journal prompts.

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